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Marcel Tobien

When gaming takes over everyday life

Your child keeps gaming, dinner gets cold and every conversation ends in an argument? Find practical first steps and advice services in Germany, Switzerland and Austria.

This page offers guidance, not a diagnosis. Long gaming hours alone do not establish addiction. Sleep, school, friendships and the ability to stop also matter.

A place to start today

01

Observe before labelling

Look for specific changes: lost sleep, neglected schoolwork, missed friends or activities your child used to enjoy. What happens at agreed stopping times? Note a few examples instead of labelling your child. Ask what they enjoy in the game and who they play with.

02

Talk outside the argument

Choose a calm moment, not the final minute of a match. You might say: “I’ve noticed you struggle to get up in the morning. I want to understand what is happening.” Listen before negotiating rules. Taking an interest in the game does not mean accepting unlimited play.

03

Make a few clear agreements

Agree age-appropriate gaming times, stopping times and advance reminders. Protect sleep, school and shared meals. Discuss in-game spending and where devices stay at night. Plan an offline activity your child actually enjoys instead of filling every free minute.

04

Get support early

If sleep, school or relationships are suffering, your child struggles to stop or conversations repeatedly break down, seek advice. Parents can contact a service on their own. A counsellor can help assess the situation and plan next steps. A paediatrician is also a suitable first contact for health concerns. You do not need to establish a diagnosis yourself.

Where to find support

Contact details checked on 18 October 2026. Hours are local to the provider. Check the linked official page for current availability and conditions.

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Further reading from specialist services

Marcel Tobien · 18.10.2026

GAME OVER

How this connects to GAME OVER

Ben enters a magical adventure after gaming has taken up more and more of his life. His story may open a conversation. It does not replace counselling or treatment and is not a tool to make a child stop gaming.

GAME OVER

Marcel Tobien

What comes next?

FARBEN continues. GAME OVER arrives in autumn 2027. In the journal I share more about the books, their characters and writing.